Sometimes we have to let go of people in our lives, not because we want them gone, but because we realize that they have already let go of us, – or maybe they never were there for us in the first place either.
One moment we may think we are the most important person in somebody’s life, the next moment we abruptly learn that they don’t even want to know us.
How come “love” has become a substitute for “want to have sex with for the time being, but after I no longer want to have sex with you, I don’t want to talk with you ever again”?
Isn’t it strange that the word “love” is used about somebody who has no other value in somebody’s life, if they aren’t sex objects for them?
They’ll keep family, friends – even Facebook acquaintances – in their lives forever, but throw away – without hesitation – somebody they claimed to love above anyone?
No wonder the world is full of wars.
circles
around the truth
Don’t chase people.
Be the best you that you can be.
Those people who naturally belong in your life, will find you, and those you are better off without will disappear. .
The people in your life who betrayed you, cannot be the ones to fix you.
Real healing can only happen from inside.
Watch your wishes for people you love. If you wish to be the person giving them all their joys, you may unconsciously wish that other events don’t give them joy. And if they love you back, they may unconsciously respond by cancelling all these other events, and thus lose all other joys. You will invisibly paralyze them, instead of making their life better. That is not loving.
Help others grow. Don’t make them satellites of your ego.
Being the better person can be a very confusing and lonely mission, but for those who pay attention, it may reveal mysteries of life.
Vulnerability means to completely expose your sensitivity, and it is necessary to be vulnerable in order to stay honest and to keep in touch with yourself and others and life.
Are you on the right path in life?
If not, whose life are you living?
Imagine a movie scene – say a child walking on a beach. Now imagine there is scary music playing. What happens?
Then replay the same scene in your mind, but now imagine it with happy, carefree summer music and laughter in the background.
Even if it’s the exact same scene, you get totally different experiences.
Just like in the movies, our emotional attitude fundamentally change the way we experience what happens to and around us.
Often we cannot control the happenings much, but what we can control, is how we feel about what happens to and around us. Our emotional attitude is like a record we can change on will!
If your experience of something sucks, then try changing the soundtrack!
As we developed our technology to help us lead simpler lives, is it possible that we also started expecting more and more often that other humans operate predictably and mechanically – like machines?
Maybe the machines will never enslave us, but maybe the machines already reshaped us in their image?
History has taught us many times that the dreams and nightmares of our leaders become reality. Possible consequences are used as excuses for causes. Before anything even happens. And thus the consequences are inevitable.
We need leaders who dare to dream up a positive future. We need to get rid of the leaders who have nightmares of fears and disasters.
Dreams and nightmares in our lives come true, because of what we say. So also dreams for the planet.
By changing our visions, we change our lives and the lives of everybody.
Change your nightmares for beautiful dreams! Or face nightmares created in reality.
On a large scale, and also in our private homes this is true. Dream good things for good things to happen. Why don’t we know this yet? WAKE UP, leaders and LEAD.
History isn’t linear. Causes become consequences as much as consequences become causes. We get what we ask for. WAKE UP leaders and LEAD.
We act and react to the future based on our past.
What we react to now, we should have reacted to during our last experience.
What we experience now, we should have reacted to the way we will react in the future.
It seems as if we live life backwards in this realm, and only when we turn around and watch our lives in direction from death to birth does it all make sense.
My time could be measured in impact of impressions, instead of in minutes.
Sometimes life seems so stagnant that 2 years feel like 2 months.
Sometimes life is experienced so deeply that 2 months feel like 2 years.
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your thoughts color your day,
your days color your life,
your life colors humanity
fireworks
darkness before
darkness after
not same color
Are people who constantly talk about changing their lives not accepting who they are?
Time is money.
But is money time?
Inner sceneries
create
life
Paint!
Slowly