I lovingly accept that I am lovable enough to die for, just as I myself would die for the people I love.
One moment we may think we are the most important person in somebody’s life, the next moment we abruptly learn that they don’t even want to know us.
How come “love” has become a substitute for “want to have sex with for the time being, but after I no longer want to have sex with you, I don’t want to talk with you ever again”?
Isn’t it strange that the word “love” is used about somebody who has no other value in somebody’s life, if they aren’t sex objects for them?
They’ll keep family, friends – even Facebook acquaintances – in their lives forever, but throw away – without hesitation – somebody they claimed to love above anyone?
No wonder the world is full of wars.
Love is like a plant, it can only grow or die.
Don’t waste love on people who aren’t capable of receiving it well.
Misplaced attachments will drain you, and in the end, when you are exhausted, the person sucking you dry will throw you away as if you were worthless. You will end up having supported a person who spreads pain.
Give your love to people who can appreciate it, and heal the world instead.
The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your actions will be.
– Dalai Lama
When happenings from the past come back to haunt you, accept them as consequences of your previous choices, and meet them with love and kindness, to end the karmic cycle. .
– Hi!
– How are you?
– I had a vision. I saw your karma
– Wow! Mine? Tell me about it!
– I can’t tell you. You have to tell me first
– Tell you?
– Yes, tell me.
– Tell you what?
– You know what to tell me. Just do it.
– I love you
– I know. I love you, too.
– OMG!! We never talked before! I have a girlfriend! What’s going on here?
– It will be ok. I think it is linked to the karma I saw. Besides, you haven’t done anything wrong yet. Just don’t flirt with me more now.
– OK. So can you tell me about the karma now?
– Yes! It goes like this: 4000 years ago we were lovers. You met me when you travelled far, far from home, to Egypt. You thought I had the perfect body, the perfect mind, the perfect spirit and you thought I was the perfect match for you. You wanted me, and you promised to move to Egypt and be with me as my husband. And so I gave myself to you.
Then time came for you to go back to your home country, to arrange things there before returning to me. You said you would come back, but the long jouney tired you and changed you, and you forgot the feeling that had made you promise to return, and you betrayed me. You rationalized it to yourself: “Should I, the mighty person I am, give up my kingdom for a woman? An Egyptian woman, so far away? There are so many women. Why make this one special?”
But you couldn’t stop thinking of me, and so you decided you should replace me – find a woman to love from your own lands, and you sent your servants to find a woman like me. And your servants brought you women.
But either you didn’t like their looks, and punished your servants for it, or the women disappointed you otherwise, and you punished them. Most weren’t as aware and developed as you found me, or their spirit wasn’t as bright, or you didn’t feel as in love nor as loved as with me. And then you degraded the women, you told them they were without value, you abused them. One woman after the other was hurt or destroyed as you got bored or angry with them for not being me, and you moved on to the next, as if they weren’t humans with feelings, but objects that were expected to awaken feelings in you, or else they were to be trashed.
Back in Egypt, I was crushed after your betrayal. But you ignored my letters, ignored me, and kept crushing new women, as they invariably failed to make you feel as you had felt with me. And so, by trying to replace me, you doomed yourself to seeking without ever finding again. For 4000 years, your soul has been searching for the right woman, never finding her. You have been forever dissatisfied with the ones you are with.
And now we meet for the first time in 4000 years! And that is why you say you love me without having met me before, without knowing what I look like, my age or even my name. Your soul remembers.
You have the option to heal your karma now, and avoid another 4000 years of pain.
– Stange. Somehow I feel like I remember this. It resonates with something in me. And another thing that is true, I seem to never find the one. This feels so crazy.
– Yes. For me, too.
– Does this mean I have to be with you, now? I’m confused.
– Haha! I don’t know what more it means. I don’t even know who you are! I think it all just means you have a chance to fix your karma finally, or you may hurt more. I guess it is up to you to know how to proceed, I don’t know.
– But isn’t this your karma as well?
– I don’t really know. To me it seemed to be mostly yours, though my soul still hurts from the betrayal, and so whatever you do, whatever happens between us, I think you shouldn’t lie to me or hurt me in this life again. I will not survive more pain. I had so much.
– Oh, I wouldn’t hurt you or treat you like that man did! That is not how I am. I am a man of honor. I wouldn’t harm you nor betray you if it came to that.
– That’s what you said 4000 years ago, too…
– I promise I won’t. And now I have to figure out how to leave my girlfriend.
– What? No! Don’t leave her! I don’t know you, and I’m not sure I want to talk again.
– Yes, but even if I’m not seeing you ever again, how can I be with another woman, knowing my soul loves you?
– Omg, I’m so sorry.
– Bye. Maybe we will talk again?
– Maybe. Bye.
Watch your wishes for people you love. If you wish to be the person giving them all their joys, you may unconsciously wish that other events don’t give them joy. And if they love you back, they may unconsciously respond by cancelling all these other events, and thus lose all other joys. You will invisibly paralyze them, instead of making their life better. That is not loving.
Help others grow. Don’t make them satellites of your ego.
You can only build your soul with true love, true generosity, true altruism.
Enjoy building your soul today!
Unconditional forgiveness doesn’t mean to force yourself into forgiving. If you have to apply force, it isn’t unconditional.
Sometimes behind clouds, but our hearts are always warm and loving.
The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her.
– Bob Marley
Give love unconditionally.
But give wisely.
For those who notice more negative traits in others (or in themselves or in life in general) than positive, it’s time to love more and fear less.
Unless you see through your inner demons and stop projecting them on others, you may end up abandoned by people who truly love you, and only have your demons left.
The world is full of paradoxes.
Here’s one: until you are fully able to live on your own and thrive in your own company, you aren’t really ready for a relationship.
Yet, until you are fully able to give unconditionally to a partner, without demanding anything back, the relationship cannot survive.
Love is a force of nature.
Do we dare to let it blow us away?
Like a good parent, your Self must give it’s kids values – a wisdom – to live by.
Tell your good child – the Ego – and your rebel child – the Shadow – to check if their thoughts, actions and words are THE MOST LOVING they can possibly be, both for others – even strangers – and for yourself.
This will give the kids a tool to measure their behavior and direction, and they will start making better and better and better choices, day by day.
Remind yourself, no matter what you do, think or say, that it is the most loving choice you can make in this very moment for yourself and for others. In time, this will make the kids choose more and more in line with the path you are intended for. And to true happiness.
All you need is love.
The little brother (or sister) of the Ego is the Shadow. While the Ego is our good child, the Shadow is our defiant child.
The Ego will inevitably fail at creating meaningful success, no matter how well-intentioned, as it’s understanding of the divine reality it often tries to create is too limited. When nothing works as the Ego planned, and everything is chaos, the Shadow comes out to destroy anything that was perceived as stopping the Ego’s (misplaced) efforts, normally using methods totally opposing the Ego’s ideals. With that, the Shadow eliminates all chances of success as the Ego sees it, and the only option is to escape or suffer, unless the adult of the psyche – the Self – takes over and cleans up the mess.
❤ But remember, both kids did their best, also today. Give them a hug. They both need love, particularly after such a day. ❤
fragments of past pain
move like kids on the dance floor
protected by our love
until they dance like pros
If you love, you chose to love.
If you fight, you chose to fight.
Respect and accept your choices.
The power is yours.
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