Treat people so well that they easily can find the strength to move on from you.
Treat them so well they will not want to.
And again they will ask you to fight something or somebody. Fight the government. Fight the media. Fight the banks. Fight the president.
Do not listen. Do not ever fight against someone of something no matter how bad they are.
Fight for something.
Only for.
If you fight against something or somebody, without having an idea about what should replace it, you will create chaos. And chaos is worse than any oppressive order.
Chaos is a ladder. For psychopaths. Do not fight against ideas, institutions, people, roles. Fight for ideas, people, roles only.
Don’t fight against somebody or something together with all the others hating on the present state of affairs, unless most of you agree on what to replace it with.
Do not be just another useful idiot for those who have an agenda. Rather get your own agenda, and then fight for it.
Wake up. Find your values. Or continue to destroy anything with meaning by running around in hoards destroying the old and replacing it with chaos. Wake up to having real opinions, real values. Be for something. Not against.
One moment we may think we are the most important person in somebody’s life, the next moment we abruptly learn that they don’t even want to know us.
How come “love” has become a substitute for “want to have sex with for the time being, but after I no longer want to have sex with you, I don’t want to talk with you ever again”?
Isn’t it strange that the word “love” is used about somebody who has no other value in somebody’s life, if they aren’t sex objects for them?
They’ll keep family, friends – even Facebook acquaintances – in their lives forever, but throw away – without hesitation – somebody they claimed to love above anyone?
No wonder the world is full of wars.
All things you do for or say to others is feedback.
Watch the sneaky judgement that your words and actions build upon. You may be indirectly telling others that they need to change, and that may harm them even if your intention is good and you think you know what they need. Chances are you do not.
At the subatomic level it is only when we observe a particle that it has to choose a place to manifest. All points in time and space are essentially the same at this level. Everything exists in probability waves – they exist everywhere and nowhere all at once, until we decide to observe.
The same goes for how our history is written, personal or collective. Chronology is an illusion. Reality, truth, time – a probability wave – everywhere and nowhere all at once. Until we decide to observe. History gets pinned down in frozen moments of an observer. .
Watch your wishes for people you love. If you wish to be the person giving them all their joys, you may unconsciously wish that other events don’t give them joy. And if they love you back, they may unconsciously respond by cancelling all these other events, and thus lose all other joys. You will invisibly paralyze them, instead of making their life better. That is not loving.
Help others grow. Don’t make them satellites of your ego.
Take responsibility for your mistakes, instead of feeling powerless and victimized.
Acknowledge your role without judgement, fix it if you can, and build yourself a stronger character to not make the same mistakes again.
This is not to excuse abusers, but to make people aware of their own power. The abuser has their karma. Spend your energy on fixing your own. ❤
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