Listen to the ego subconsciously creating stories in each and every word formed in our heads and creating realities as the words come out of our mouths, unless we listen carefully and help the ego make better choices of words. That way, we may prevent catastrophe before the ego causes it.
Love the ego as if it is a good child that wants the best, and does it’s best to ensure the success we wish for, but who cannot know enough to be in charge. It is only a child.
Let the kids play, and assume responsibility for your journey from a higher perspective, and you will never be stressed again, and success is inevitable.